Find Your Love

Find your love

First, how’s your energy? Are you feeling anxious about finding love? Many of us are. We eagerly want to share life experiences with another person, feel supported and cherished. Without these things, life can get pretty damn uncomfortable. This is no surprise — since we humans are literally hard-wired for love, connection and belonging. (If you need convincing, check out Brené Brown’s TED talk on The Power of Vulnerability. She’s got the research to back it up — and she’s hilarious.)

An anxious person looking for love will behave very differently from a peaceful person looking for love — and the results will reflect that energy. When we try to “white-knuckle” a new relationship, the foundation of the relationship is compromised. And it’s highly likely that a partnership built on anxiety will create more anxiety. Once we have that love and connection, we certainly don’t want to lose it.

Your best chance at real connection is to approach new love from a place of peace. You’re probably thinking, “Sounds great — so what the hell do I do?”

The key to dropping the anxiety lies in your mind. Every single thing we do is motivated by how we think it will make us feel. How will love will make you feel? I want you to really think about it. Imagine your future romance — in vivid detail — and notice how you feel. THAT is the energy to bring to new love.

You don’t have to wait until the stars align to feel that way. You can shift from anxiety to peace anytime you want by imagining a new love movie or replaying real love memories. Your energy is a direct reflection of your thoughts – and you are in charge of your thoughts! So why not go in peace??

For learn more about the peace process, check out Flow Rider.

Wendy Kranz is a sharp, warm, enthusiastic, truly gifted life coach. Her style is extremely supportive; if you’re in the middle of a complicated life change or want to push yourself to unprecedented levels, Wendy will yank you up and hold onto you while you get your bearings. She’s the perfect coach for someone who wants five-star treatment. Hire her as a treat for yourself.
~Martha Beck, Life Coach, Author + Speaker
Wendy’s coaching is always thoughtful and actionable. I have never met someone who possesses all of these characteristics and still has the ability to create an environment of safety and warmth for the people she works with.
~John Yamin, Chief Executive Officer
I bellied up to the Damn Thirsty bar over five years ago and have never looked back. The playful, wise, bold coaching of Wendy Kranz knocked down the thoughts that were holding me back and allowed me to pursue a more adventurous, joyful life. For that reason, Wendy will always be my go-to coach.
~Tracy Carrothers
Do you know why I love Wendy Kranz? Because not only is she a powerfully effective coach, but she is also hilariously funny and refreshingly honest. I hate hanging up the phone when our session ends and coo in delight when I get an email from her. There's a lot more I could say, but in truth—I only get coached by the best and I am proud to call Wendy my coach.
~Jessica Steward, Master Certified Life Coach & Chief Mischief Maker, Steward Coaching
For over 12 years now Wendy has walked beside me, encouraged, challenged, cared and advised me through many major losses and hurdles along my life’s journey. I’m a better leader, father, brother and friend because of Wendy Kranz.
~Tom Hebner, Vice President of Operations
Wendy Kranz is the coolest cat-surfer-girl-zen-master coach ever! Her compassion and understanding support you in finding your way to clarity and it changes your life – for real. She is a spiritual gangsta. You don’t waste a second when you work with Wendy as she asks the perfect questions that hit precisely on what is blocking you from peace, joy or whatever it is that is limiting you. And guess what – it’s not even hard! She makes it feel so easy and manageable and that everything is going to be ok – sometimes you don’t even have to do anything, you just clean up your thoughts and things just change.
~Michelle Rashid
Wendy Kranz changed my life. I was divinely led to her life coaching at a time when I was yearning to create the second half of my life pursuits with no map in sight. Her bright light coaching enabled me to pick up my compass and follow my north star of living on purpose. I continue to use the tools she taught me on a daily basis. Having her guiding light through my transformation was invaluable.
~Kristin
Wendy Kranz helped me to change my life. I was stuck in a misery loop and had no idea how to get out of it. Wendy's gift is understanding that the struggles we all create are not the result of who we are, rather how much we've let others tell us who we should be. She is so skilled at asking just the right questions! It was important for me to discover the answers on my own and Wendy let me do that. She helped me realize that the answers are all within me and she guided me to find them.
~Candi
In all the personal and professional permutations of life, Wendy Kranz offers sage counsel, kind humor and an unfailing ability to help her clients see the rising tide of promise.
~Kristi Jones, CEO Vinforia
Everyone needs a Wendy Kranz. Wendy has been my coach for over five years now. She has been my lifeboat at times when I didn't see a viable path to shore. Wendy reminds me that all feelings are true, but questioning our thoughts behind our feelings can change our lives in magnificent ways. I'm constantly evolving and Wendy is always there to guide me through when I feel stuck.
~H. Sheldon
Wendy Kranz is a fantastic listener and maintained an excellent history of the issues and challenges we discussed. She was prompt, responsive and gave me a unique perspective and insight to my personal situations that I had not even considered. She was able to coach me through difficult relationship issues from a perspective that enabled me and my girlfriend to have calm, collected and successful discussions about our relationship.
~A.J., Executive Recruiter
Wendy Kranz instills self-sufficiency. She gets to know what is important for me, sets my compass and provides tools of how to check in with it. When I am confronted with challenges or big decisions, I know how to conduct self-diagnosis. I have clarity on how I should proceed according to what is important to me and the big picture.
~Lisa, Director of Sales
Before coaching, I was paralyzed by depression and fear. I felt like I was dying emotionally. Now I feel that I am growing and moving forward. I am happy – I feel safe. I am able to pass Wendy’s guidance and wisdom on to my two daughters and I feel that my improved life is the best example I can set for them.
~L.M., Senior Manager
I am grateful for the help and guidance Wendy Kranz provided in navigating my career path. The help Wendy has given me through her empathetic listening, her ability to keep me on track, and, at times, her tough love have truly guided me towards the life I know I deserve to have.
~Melisa, Design Director
Wendy has the ability to ask amazing, thought-provoking questions that enable a person to get clear on issues great and small. I would highly recommend Wendy Kranz as a life coach. She will get you where your heart’s desire is leading you.
~Janice Supplee
Just when I thought I couldn’t live through one more day, Wendy Kranz puts it all in a sentence, culls it all down to a manageable portion and gets me to the next level. Before I know it, my life is moving forward.
~R.Z.
Wendy Kranz has helped me through many issues: infertility, raising a challenging child, marital difficulties and divorce, legal problems, and work issues to name a few. She has guided me and helped to “heal” me time and time again.
~Lynn, Office Manager
Her reassuring demeanor and suggestions of “tools I can put in my tool box” are priceless. Wendy Kranz is a natural coach who lives her life the way she advises her clients. She is a breath of fresh air who offers kindness and knowledge with every meeting.
~S.R., Consumer Relations Manager